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When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

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Re: When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

Post by viktorados on Thu Jul 03, 2008 10:44 pm

... anther proof that we live in a SUBJECTIVE world,
where two people can talk about one thing
and each of them will be absolutely right :lol: :lol: :lol:

I think the truth is somewhere in between :
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Re: When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

Post by real on Sun Jul 06, 2008 8:11 am

"I think the truth is somewhere in between"
In my opinion, there is actually no absolut truth a human can reach. Every human lives in his individual reality with rules, facts and speculations he believes to be true. But they are true only in his reality, on his level of consciousness. A person may grow and move to a next level of consciousness, and suddenly, things were true at the previous step of development become false or at least not so true as thought previously.

The crucial concequece is you cannot make a person understand you or agree with you without moving that person to your level of reality. Here an interesting question arises: Why would you be interested in other person agreeing with you, that is to recognize your truth as such (Or at least listen to you )

Is it a subliminal approval seeking behaviour - E.g. you know and believe the laws of the universe, the higher truth, you know more than other person, you feel superior, you want approval and respect for teaching the person these laws. Or is it some form of doubt - E. g. now you believe and understand this and that, but there are doubts, and you tell other person your truth just to see the reaction, to discuss, engaging actually an educational process four yourself. The point I want to make is, there is no point in talking to other person about some truth trying to convince that person :wink:

However, I perefer to believe a different motivation for teaching other people some higher truth. That is making the whole world a better place to live in, by making other people around you more successful. It is again in your own selfish interest to make people around you happy to make yourself happy :lol:
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Re: When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

Post by ubra on Wed Jul 09, 2008 9:19 am

the best time to get a girlfriend is when you would like to have one.

period.

there's no such thing as being perfect, there's no such thing as a perfect woman, there's no such thing as a perfect relationship. those things only exist in your head or during the insane phase when two people are totally in love with each other. and this phase rarely lasts more than 3-12 months. :)

there's no such thing as "perfect", but there is a thing called "good enough" or "worth a try".

in men, maturity and character are attractive to women. maturity and character come from trying and failing.

best,

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Re: When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

Post by maxdog on Thu Aug 14, 2008 1:12 pm

I can only say one thing: If you donA t have experience GO GET IT!!
It helps you Grow as a Person and gives you Confidence plus you can tell yourself you donA t need
a Girlfriend to be lucky but this isnA t really true because your brain is simply wired to draw you towards Women.
ItA s like Sports invest some time on a regular basis and therefore get a lot out of it.
So i think the best time for You to have a Girlfriend is today!
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Re: When do you think is the best time to have a girlfriend?

Post by battyboot on Fri Aug 22, 2008 9:12 pm

IMO stay away from a women until you have your game really tight! Having slept with many, many women myself and lived with 3 women in long term relationships I can say IMO that every woman on this earth has agenda of some kind and odds are if your working on your game etc having a women can really mess up your agenda! Don't get me wrong I don't hate women or think they are really evil, just a little evil ;-) So think about it before you do anything, I mean because if your like not a monk your going to need some s** at some point so I would suggest getting a High Class escort as a treat for yourself because if just go on a date and get some free s** your opening up complications for yourself because you can sucked into a minor relationship and it will have an effect on your long term game.

If you look at any of the PUA's OK they are picking up women every night but thats the job of a PUA and any PUA/Mack at a certain point will tell you it's not about quanity it's about quality and "High Value" female's will require some matience you don't have to buy the women but if your looking to wife up a quality lady or have a long term realtionship she is going to be looking at a certain level of payment now if that is in taking her on high class holiday, high class dinners., high class shoping whatever it is, it's payment and if you don't give it to her to some degree she will leave and find that element somewhere else. So your doing the right thing working on yourself first I commend you bro.

Now some of you guys may be shocked about the whole escort part but get real this is the 21st Century and I look at it from a soldiers perspective like sleep with a ho when your on weekend leave then Monday morning your back in the fight, and you have to fight to get your game tight Bro! Love your rifle before you love a women Welcome to BOOT!

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