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The 5 Factors We Need To Change To Achieve Our Dreams

Post by LittleBearCrow on Sun Sep 23, 2012 3:29 am

From the time we get up to the time we go to bed each day we have the chance to change
5 important factors that lead us to the changing of our direction and allowing us to
achieve our dreams. So what are they and just what is it we need to focus on in order to
slowly bring ourselves one day at a time to a better position with ourselves. Well, here
they are:

Ownership: :unsure:

The good old thinking of "I wasn't sure that this would work in the first place. I tried it out—it
didn't do that much good. As I guessed, this was kind of a waste of time!" is not where you
want to be.

Having success in the ownership of a situation is where you in yourself state the outcome even before
it has been completed and realised. Mentally you need to internally state to yourself "I am successful,
happy, and am where I need to be right now" at anytime in order to become this person. If you wake
up every morning and greet it with "Oh man, I am really not looking forward to today" attitude, then
that is where you will stay. So being positive is the first step and stating the wanted outcome to
yourself!

Time: :o

I know at some point we've all said to ourselves "I had no idea that this process would take so long.
I'm not sure it's worth it."

Realise that all good things take time to achieve and accomplish and in many cases can take longer than
expected. The timelines we set ourselves to accomplish a certain goal can be out of perspective in
relation to the goal itself - so be vigilant and reassess that timeline if things aren't going quite to plan.
Also, our habits can affect just how we view our achievements vs the time we set to achieve that goal.
In order to get past this hurdle, we also need to change our views and our methods of approach.

Difficulty: :?:

"This is a lot harder than I thought it would be. It sounded so simple when we were starting out" is one
I've heard many times.

The level of difficulty can be overcome with a higher level of experience. But what if you don't have
any experience and that it was that very reason you started what you did to overcome that issue?
The answer to that one is simple - go to someone who knows. Go to someone who has done what you
are wishing to achieve and follow their lead and maybe even duplicate what they did.

Sometimes the best way to success is to follow the very footsteps of those that are the leaders. They
didn't get to the top by playing an ace under the table. So go to those that know and where
necessary - ask questions! No question is a silly question when you are learning. If you don't ask - you
don't get.

Distractions: :oops:

Yes - distractions, distractions, distractions. They are everywhere and will certainly get you behind the
eight ball if you allow it.

To avoid as many distractions as you can in order to achieve your dreams you are wise to have a small
diary and make a list of what it is you want to achieve and by what date. From there under each goal,
create a list of things that need to be done in order to achieve that goal. By the list of "to do" under each
goal, we can then estimate the length of time or a date that it will take us to reach it.

If you are unsure of the length of time it might take, then again, ask someone who knows or go to a source that can give you answers. There's a great book called "Questions Are The Answers" by Allan Pease that
will explain in more detail just what value questions really do play in our lives.

Maintenance: :D

Real change requires real effort and none more so than maintenance. To maintain our constant level
of effort we need to have roadchecks along the way to make sure we are doing just that. The best way
to keep your efforts at a constant is to have someone watching over you whether it be a mentor or a
leader in your team.

Often when we go out with a big goal or desire in mind to achieve and we go out with a blast of hot
air that drives us intially but then loses its steam as soon as we hit what I call a "wall". To get through
these times we need to seek someone who is willing to keep a watch on us before we start out and
even at times make some comments or provide some input that will adjust our direction which will in
turn help us achieve success sooner than if we were to do it alone.

Summary:

So with these 5 factors we need to change in order to achieve our dreams, it makes sense to create a plan for every dream we wish to achieve and to have someone to help us along the way. The good old saying "When the student is ready the teacher appears" is so true. So keep in mind that you do need a plan to achieve your dreams successfully and that it can take some doing to get just what you want done. Don't give up though - as there is always a helping hand nearby if you look hard enough.


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