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Help with Staring

Post by natiminc on Sat Mar 06, 2010 6:11 am

I have this problem where I seem to invade peoples personal space because of my eyes. I don't know how to be respectful towards them. Not like oogling at someones body or something. Its just I don't know where to let my eyes relax.
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Re: Help with Staring

Post by developing_success on Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:05 am

well from what i know, keep a distance of 1,5-2 meters from them and try to look them around the nose area, don't gaze too much, be relaxed, move your eyes on other stuff from time to time
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Re: Help with Staring

Post by Inspired on Tue Mar 09, 2010 11:33 am

May you should look at the surrounding scenery instead of looking at people. Look at them only when you talk and keep your eyes on their forehead. Keeping a calm demeanour also helps.

When you talk or listen, it is better to look at people directly since looking away is a negative body language. It is variedly interpreted as a guilty response or a sneaky demeanour. Look, but don't gaze unwinkingly.

Hope this helps.
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Re: Help with Staring

Post by natiminc on Fri Mar 12, 2010 8:05 pm

Thanks,
I'll try those, but I think it might also be my deeper inner game issues.
Kind of obvious but I don't know what those issues are.
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