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Dating Tips

Post by viktorados on Mon Sep 06, 2010 7:42 pm

Dating Tips

Being successful with girls goes beyond any dating tips out there, look at the most successful men out there; they look so natural about it. Do you think they were born with that ability? Some maybe, but the majority not!

There are two kinds of men that seem to have the most “luck” with women, the first kind is because they actively learned and tried a lot of dating tips out there until they mastered this domain, while others became girl magnets because of their “leadership” personality, men that try to get things done in their life, to stand out in the crowd and coincidentally (or not), leaders, any kind of leaders (think of rock stars for example) have the exact traits to which women are the most attracted to!

It doesn’t matter what side you choose, the result is all that counts, so without any more delays, I’ll give you some dating tips that will help you not only to attract more girls in your life but also to improve your leadership skills, because as you know, LEADERS are ALPHA MALES!

1. CONFIDENCE – you are as great as everybody else, or even better
- Look people in the eyes, be certain about yourself, eliminate shyness

2. MASTER – behave that how you do it, is the best way to do it
- It’s all in the state of mind, you are far more capable than you think

3. FUNNY & COCKY – this lethal combination keeps away the clown & jerk image
- Once you made girls laugh, you’re in, but it must be done in a cocky way to make it sexy and not childish. More info on this subject in our dating tips area

4. INDEPENDENT – you are self-sufficient, you are your own boss
- Women love a man who doesn’t need someone to look after him

5. ACHIEVER – you work smart every day to accomplish something big
- It shows that you are an active interesting guy to be around

6. HEALTHY/FIT – i treat my body like a temple, i don’t put junk in it
- Health is an important indicator that you’ll be around more to take care of her and your kids, plus being muscular is sexy

7. SMART – intelligence is sexy
- Ask any women or dating tips guys and they will tell you the same thing

8. DEEP VOICE – when you speak, they stop and listen
- No women will be attractive if you have a squeaky voice, train it if necessary

9. STYLE – because style really matters
- You know how wild girls are about fashion, well you have to be dressed nice as well, and it will boost your image instantly.

Those were only a few examples of traits to which girls are attracted to, the list could go on and on but it will only overwhelm you. In my experience I’ve learned that the best way to master any field is to take it step by step, don’t try to do them all at once, because even if you don’t want to admit, you can’t change overnight (unless a great tragedy happens), your will power is very precious and limited.

Model the great PUA’s we have in our dating tips section, look at them and try to imagine yourself like one, have you ever heard of the phrase: “Fake it till you make it” ?, well here it can work. Flood your mind with focused knowledge and eventually it will say: “I CAN DO THIS!”
After you’ve “armed” yourself with various dating tips then you can get to what matters: PRACTICE. If you want to do it the old fashion way, the way most moderately guys do it, you can skip the seduction advice and get directly into practice, but tell me this: What is better? Learning from your own mistakes or from others? Re-inventing the wheel or using/improving the wheel?

I know that there is no “sure thing strategy”, so that is why you should filter out all those dating tips and see for yourself what works best for you. It won’t mean that you will be somebody else, it will still be you, but an improved version, a more magnetic personality that lies in all of us, and to some, that personality never gets the chance to come out of the dark.

One of the biggest traps newbies fall into is “the friend circle”, they talk to a girl, they feel good together and all of the sudden you say to yourself: “She’s my girlfriend!” and the moment you start acting like one, she gets freaked out and starts ignoring you, why? Because you didn’t make her to be sexually attracted to you, you were only a good friend, that’s all! Boys will sleep with their female friends if the opportunity arises, but on the other hand, girls won’t do such a thing, most of them anyway. If only somebody gave me dating tips like these long time ago!

In case you were wondering, money is very important in this “game”. You don’t have to be rich to be a leader of men and a magnet for girls; you can get along fine with medium income. In fact, the richer you are, the harder will be to know if a woman loves you, or your money! Sure, you can get her body, but you will never get her soul, would you keep a beautiful “succubus” in your life if you know that she only pretends to love you for your money? That’s not something to be proud of. I’m not saying it will be impossible to find true love if your rich, but it will definitely be harder if that is what you wish!

You might wonder: “Who gives the best dating tips?” the answer is: it depends. We have David DeAngelo, The Mystery Method, Real Social Dynamics, Mehow, and a lot more guys. You just have to search and find out for yourself what works best for you, which of them resonates more with you and who’s dating tips bring you the best results?

It takes courage to approach girls, but you know what else requires courage? Crossing the street! So what if she rejected you, it’s not that a bus is going to hit you, or that her opinion of you will even matter to the next girl you’ll approach. You know when it will matter? If you let that affect you, don’t let a “NO” put you down, it’s all in your mind, YOUR TERRITORY!

So get off your chair, read some dating tips and get there in the field, you can’t become an ALPHA MALE by staying home!

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Re: Dating Tips

Post by Amy Twain on Fri Oct 01, 2010 8:47 am

I never really read everything in that post, but for me, a confident man is attractive to any woman. Yup, confidence is the key, bot not being a braggart or arrogant. Just the right kind of confidence
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Re: Dating Tips

Post by Maximus Colt on Sun Dec 19, 2010 12:58 pm

Be honest to yourself... this is the first and important dating tips.

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Re: Dating Tips

Post by cosmics on Mon Dec 27, 2010 5:00 pm

I think a man has to be protective, kind-hearted, gentle, and providing too. Women really love a man who knows how to take care of them. At least I do! :)
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Re: Dating Tips

Post by CharityH on Sun May 01, 2011 3:08 am

I think it has a lot to do with a persons willingness to open up.Also don't be freaky guys!Beautiful girls get a lot of unwanted attention, so just make sure you make her feel like you like her for her.Be cool at first to go with the flow.Don't try too hard but just enough.Ask her out and when she says yes take her to a nice place.Listen to the things she says.Here are some dating tip my mom always taught us!Visit my blog for more tip on dating.

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