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Becoming a con man

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Becoming a con man

Post by Ununtrium113 on Mon Mar 21, 2011 1:16 pm

Hey guys.

I've been into self help and this stuff a few years ago but somehow I've lost interest and got on with my life...until now. A few days back I watched the TV series White Collar, with a con man as a main charakter and he is everything I want to be.
He is charming, cultivated, good looking, he has his special way with women and he gets people to do what he wants them to do. How do I become like him?
It's not like I want to trick people into giving me their money or something like that, because I have a job who pays pretty well, but I want to be a bit more like him personality wise.

Thank you a lot in advance.
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Re: Becoming a con man

Post by viktorados on Mon Mar 21, 2011 5:18 pm

From what you have described, he might have some upgrades in social skills, negotiation, hypnosis, nlp, sports. I have met such people in real life too, mostly among my friends who are fond of self-improvement :D
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Re: Becoming a con man

Post by Ununtrium113 on Tue Mar 22, 2011 6:36 pm

Hello again and thanks for your reply.

Are there any books you can recommend me on how to get better social skills.
I want to be able to meet new people and immediately make them like me. I want to be the "go-to" person when my friedns are going out and partying. I don't want to hope for a party to happen, but I want to be forced to decline offers, because I'm getting invited to so many. I want to be more comfortable around people, especially people whom I don't know or don't know that well. I want to be able to be confident in any situation, be it buisness or a social event, be it with drunk friends or stuck up elderly people. I want people to come to me, because right now it seems like I have to put in all the work and I'm never getting approched.
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