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Accountability Reaps Rewards

Post by Innersky23 on Thu May 31, 2012 1:56 am

When we discover there’s something going wrong in life, we have two choices. The two choices are as follows:
1.) Complain and Blame
2.) Change
Ultimately beating yourself up about a situation will create more of the same in the future, therefore attracting the very same situations that you beat yourself up over…continuing the vicious cycle of frustration and anger.

Instead of this approach, why not ask, “How can this situation serve me?” In other words, if things don’t go right, you can pull one good thing out of that experience. So instead of focusing on the wrong, you can focus on what you can take away from that experience that will help you next time.
In the larger scheme of things, if you think your problems are “out there” then you ‘ll continue to look “out there” for the solutions. Keep in mind that if you blame someone else for your problems then THEY have to change in order for you to be happy and have what you want. Reality Check----It never works!

Unfortunately, many people take this victim road and end up in a big ditch. Instead of being the victim be accountable. In fact, put accountability on steroids, and realize that success and happiness will come when you take accountability for EVERY single thing in your life…and that means everything…even when you think it’s not your “fault”. The greatest results only come when you become accountable for everything in your life.
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Re: Accountability Reaps Rewards

Post by Vamonos on Sat Jun 16, 2012 7:34 pm

well written :)
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Re: Accountability Reaps Rewards

Post by blackholesun on Mon Jun 18, 2012 10:06 am

well I got 2 questions

1. did this approach serve you?
2. how much self-help did you read in the past 6 months?

okay nevermind, I think, I know the answers to this, because I used to be at this state

it`s one thing that people in general are passive about their life`s, but the other extreme to beat yourself up for everything is also unnatural

success starts with you accepting yourself and knowing no matter what happens you can deal with it, because you are already enough

why?

if you are in "I got to do this and I`m done if I don`t" mode, than your general attitude will be geared towards pushing yourself and your pain ahead, which will be the first thing people will feel when meeting up with you

and since success depends on persuasion to a large extent, well this might be a strategy, that will going to limit you

does the expression "glass ceiling" ring a bell? :D

just think for a second, if this success stuff is about the "abundance mentality", than isn`t the "I`m the cause to all of this and if I don`t get what I want, I`m a loser" type of thinking more like a spinoff of the scarcity mentality, that "there isn`t enough success for everybody" :D
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